fine-grained auto_match_enabled behavior?

so, it would be really awesome if we could have a bit more fine-grained control over what gets auto_match-ed.  so, for instance, in lisp i dont want to have to delete the automatically-appearing ' when i type in some data.  but i dont want to turn off auto_match completely (especially in lisp, with all thoes parens all around.... i'm just learning it so it's kind of scary :P  )